When Exactly Are We Supposed to Have Life Figured Out? - Still Figuring It Out at 40-Something | Episode 1
I recently turned 45... And birthdays have this annoying habit of making you think about your life a little more than usual. You start doing this completely unnecessary mental audit. Where am I? What have I done? What’s next? Am I where I thought I would be? And wait… wasn’t I supposed to have figured all this out by now? 😂 Because somewhere in my younger brain, I think I had assumed that people in their 40s were proper adults. Well, they knew things! They made sensible decisions. They understood finances. They knew what they wanted from life. They probably even opened instruction manuals before trying to assemble things. And now I’m here. Forty-five. Still making plans. Still changing them. Still getting excited about new ideas. Still occasionally wondering what on earth I’m doing. Surely all this adulting should count for something, right? The funny part is that I have actually done quite a lot of very grown-up things I have lived in three countries. I left India when I was young to...